Thursday, September 17, 2009

What Do You Do?

Don’t know what’s worse - having to write a letter to the Commanding Naval Officer to ask for assistance collecting support (which includes arrears) from a retired officer or hoping that this person will one day smell the coffee and send what’s owed. I know you’re thinking it’s all the same. Yeah that’s true. That’s why instead of being inactive - sitting and hoping and waiting and turning blue holding my breath - I decided to be proactive and write the letter.

My question to you -- If someone owes you a lot of money personally or business, how do you go about collecting it? I’d like to hear the different opinions on this, and I am sure someone reading and commenting could possibly help someone else. Thanks.

Ciao Y’all

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I was married to someone for 25 years who is now a retired officer and he owes me money also. But you know what..I ended up letting it go because he unfortunately doesn't make a third of the income that he did when we were married and even if the court rules in my favor, they can't take what he doesn't have. He does send support for our 2 children and I do get my share of his retirement, so I have decided to just take care of myself instead of wasting time and money chasing down something I'm never going to get. I don't know what your situation is though, but that's my story.

akagem said...

By all means get the money that is due to you and your children. The bible says that debt must be paid. Everyone invloved will feel better because no one will owe any debt and the conscious can be clear of that task. AMEN!

Take the personal feelings out of the equation. Emotions have no place at this point.

Your power pill has spoken!!!


Love you,

Tattianna (AKAGEM)