Sunday, January 4, 2009

Sex, Love, or Money?

What's in it for you?  In a relationship?  Are you in it for the heart stopping sex - the heartfelt love, or money that has nothing to do with the heart at all?  Should a relationship be a partnership, like a business -- you pay this much, I'll pay that much, or should that all be thrown to the wind for the devil may care lust of the flesh, or the loving June wedding?  

Together these three work well, and it seems separately they don't work at all. 

I know a man - a good friend - who lives with a woman and uses that as a reason not to have to commit to these young unsuspecting women who throw themselves at him because they believe he can take them to stardom.  "If I wasn't living with somebody" or he'd say "if my situation was different".  STOP!

Tell me something true -- when does life become too important to waste time on knuckle heads?  In the words of my wise Mother "do you".  Take care of you.  Guard your heart.  Without preaching, God is forever faithful and true.

Ciao Y'all.

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